This beginners guide shows you various ways to customize your MATE desktop environment to change its look and feel. MATE is one of the best desktop environments for Linux distributions. We can tweak it to change how it looks and feels.
Selecting a Mate If you and your partner are a good match, it can be easy to have a long-term fulfilling, relationship. If you are a bad match it can be impossible. Basic Considerations Deciding on whom and when to marry and committing yourself to a primary relationship are significant life decisions with long-term consequences, and should not be taken lightly or made quickly or without sufficient data and careful consideration.
You should not be guided by your feelings and emotions in making these decisions because they are too misleading and narrowly focused. By all means consider your feelings, but be guided by your judgment. In order to have a long-term, fulfilling marital relationship you must be considerate, respectful and true to your spouse and to yourself.
Most people understand that how they treat their partner is important, but do not realize that how they treat themselves is equally important. It might be even more important.
Be direct, honest and respectful to the other person and yourself. Be respectful of yourself and let your partner know what is important to you. If you avoid conflict you cannot have a long-term, fulfilling relationship. Pick and Choose It is your life and you are responsible for it.
Be clear with yourself about what kind of life you ideally want based upon your needs and values and be active in trying to achieve it. Also know what personality characteristics and values you want your partner to have.
Be clear with yourself about your minimum requirements or what and how much of your ideal you can do without and still be satisfied. Make sure you are clear and realistic about this and then never settle on something that is less than your minimum requirements These are the standards that you should use when considering someone as a potential mate.
If your best judgment leads you to believe that living with that person on a daily basis will allow you to have the kind of life you want, then it is probably worth getting to know the person better.
It is not wise to spend a lot of time with someone unsuitable until the right person comes along. You risk developing an emotional bond with that person which may make it very difficult for you to end the relationship.
It takes a long time to really get to know a person. When a relationship is new, people tend to be on their best behavior. A person may be quite different after the relationship is established and has become ordinary and routine.
It is all right to commit yourself to spending more time with the person, or to agree to be exclusive with the person while you are developing the relationship and getting to know each other better.
You should also delay committing yourself to the person until after you have had a fight or two so that you get an idea of how each of you will act and react when angry and in conflict.
You will help the person learn not to be sensitive or respectful to you. Disappointments, hurts, frustrations, irritations and anger will fester inside of you and eventually poison you to the relationship.
Your potential partner needs to get to know you, so be visible, open and honest yourself from the beginning. If you are open, honest and visible about who and how you are, some people will like you and some will not. But the feelings toward you and acceptance of you by those who do like you will be solid and real.
Suggested Similarities for Smoother Relationships Highly important core beliefs and values regarding ethics, morals, religion, spiritual, cultural and political issues. Contents and style of life.
Desire and need for affection and togetherness. Standards of cleanliness and order. Beliefs regarding division of labor and responsibilities. Level of need and desire for social activities, amount of involvement with others, types of activities and frequency.
Denying or disregarding information you already have about the person that is an indication of a dysfunction or problem. Focusing only on the positive.
Not wanting to know about the weaknesses, limitations and bad habits. You need to see the person clearly, the good and the bad. Deciding the person is right for you when you are madly in love or are still in the first phase of the relationship.
When you fall madly in love, enjoy the feelings, but be careful.Therefore, Jesus in Matthew asks you to yield your soul life to Him, meaning give up your right to pursue the soul life you want to have, the mate you want to have, and allow Him to give you the soul life He wants you to have and the mate He wants you to have in His time.
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Even if you’re in a rush, you’ll thank yourself in. Deciding the person is right for you when you are madly in love or are still in the first phase of the relationship.
When you fall madly in love, enjoy the feelings, but be careful. You will be in a wonderful " drugged state " and easily misled by your feelings, so don’t make any significant decisions.
Whatever your circumstances, if you have a desire to find the right person with whom you can share the rest of your life, then Soul Mates by God can help. Soul Mates by God is designed to help you discover your best mate by following God’s way, and waiting for His ideal time.
If they would look to Jesus and seek to please Him, rather than being concerned about a mate, soon they would find the right one crossing their path. Looking for a man or woman to just keep them from being lonely or just to fill their needs or to be a father or mother to their children should not be the only reasons for desiring a mate.
Note four aspects of God’s wisdom for the choice of a mate: 1) Look for godly character qualities above all else in a prospective mate. Beauty is okay (), but godliness is essential. Especially look for someone who denies self and is .